2.03.2020

All Settled In

I know I haven't been quite up to date on here. So I thought it would be nice to come give an update. As you may already know, we bought a house over the summer. This is our first house as a family that we actually own. We have been adjusting to the new location, new neighbors, and all the new responsibilities. It has been great. Six months has passed and everyone is still happy. Including the cats.

We all have plenty of space. We can get away from each other easily by going into a different room. It's easy to get around our house and the space is plentiful. We are really happy to have found a house with decently sized rooms. Our yard is large; the cats have enjoyed roaming around and hiding with the rabbits under our shed. The kids enjoy running around out back with the neighborhood kids. We can easily walk down to the neighborhood playground and soccer field. The location of our house has been wonderful as well. It's an easy commute for all of us. Not too far from Lucian's school and my work. An easy hop onto the highway for Joseph to get downtown. We can easily get to all the places we love to shop plus the highway to go anywhere else. Needless to say, we have been loving it.

With the weather being so cold and windy lately, we haven't been able to spend much time outside. Yesterday was oddly nice out, so we took advantage of the wind. We pulled out the kites and walked down to the soccer field with the boys. Lucian flew a kite all by himself. It took a moment to get the idea of string tension, but once he got the general idea he was off. He even tried to do tricks with his kite, making it zoom back and forth. I thought he did pretty awesome. He had the slightly more difficult kite ( a beautiful orange angelfish). Apollo was originally flying the rainbow kite. He was doing pretty good, but he decided to pass it to me so he could chase the kites' shadows around. He's so goofy sometimes. He also helped me restart my kite when it would come crashing point first to the ground. It was a pretty good day for kites. Warmer than usual with bursts of wind.

It was also a little muddy out from leftover rain. Apollo was intrigued by the footprints that were visible in the mud. Joseph explained footprints and tracks to him. He decided to figure out which shoe left the footprint. So he ran to each of us and asked to see the bottoms of our feet. He even found his own footprint!

After our visit to the soccer field, we walked over to the playground. The boys played around for a bit until it became dark. Some of the other neighborhood families were out as well. Once the sun went down, it started to cool quickly. We decided to head home and have some dinner. We were really thankful to find a place where we can walk to a park and a field. It was a lovely day.

6.09.2019

The adventure continues

It has been a fairly eventful year so far. Lucian has done well in school and has tried his first season of flag football. Apollo is becoming more of a young kid and less like a toddler. We have built food trucks, pillow forts, water slides, car ramps, and amazing train railways. We have done experiments with baking, coloring and mixing water, reactions with bath and toilet bombs, and combining different liquids. We have gone to the zoo, the children's museum, playgrounds, indoor climbing places, trampoline parks, and field trips. It has been hot, cold, windy, and wet. I think we will survive the year just fine.

Lucian has done a great job in school this year. His reading and writing has come a long way. He even wrote me a little book. He has made lots of lovely pictures and fun art projects. Hopefully made some good memories and friends. His teacher was a really good match for him. 

Recently, he has tried flag football. He wasn't sure he would like it and we knew nothing about the rules. I thought he might like it because he likes "capture the flag" style games. So we gave it a go. His team ended up taking first place in his age group. He received a really nice trophy. Now he wants to play again in the fall. I had to explain to him that he probably won't be on the same team again, but he still seems to want to play. I think it will be a nice change for him. He wasn't the fastest or strongest, but he did pull his fair share of flags. For that, I am proud.

Apollo has been quite the little "threenager" this year. An emotional roller coaster who likes you one moment and despises you the next. He is learning that some things are a little too difficult for him. It's frustrating for him and he gets upset. It is frustrating for everyone else around him too. He often won't accept help. But that's ok. He is learning. I try to offer him love and support. Hopefully he accepts it.

We did attempt a gymnastics class for Apollo. It didn't go very well. I ended up getting a refund. He was too shy to even try. I guess it was too much for him. I think we will try a dance class next. 

Today we attempted to go to a strawberry festival. It ended up being cancelled due to the rain. We didn't get to do the festival or pick our own strawberries. We will pick strawberries another day. I'm hoping we get to pick other fruits this year as well.

We have a trip for Holiday world planned. It is coming up soon. This will be our first time going. It is a holiday themed theme park with a water park attached. I have heard good things about it. I hope the weather holds true for us. This will be Apollo's first theme park. I'm excited to see how he will do with rides and everything. I hope it doesn't disappoint. Hopefully, I will come back and write about our experience.

The kids are getting restless. Apollo is frustrated because he is unable to blow up a balloon. Lucian is bored. That is my calling to end this here. Until the next adventure...

1.05.2019

New adventures for 2019

Lucian has currently been on winter break. We wanted to do something new and fun before he returned to school. Well, he goes back on Monday. Therefore, we did something new today that I've been wanting to do with him for awhile now. We went skating. All of us. As a family.

Keep in mind that neither boy has one skating before. Lucian received roller blades for the holidays this year from his grandpa. The boys tested them around the living room a bit. I told them we were going to go skating while on break. Naturally, they weren't thrilled because they are homebodies. I made them go anyways. I think they had fun. They tried something new.

Lucian fell a lot while learning to balance. But he figured some of it out. There was a lot of laughing and smiling. He didn't cry or get upset. He did his best. I am proud. He was proud of himself. Maybe next time I'll rent him a support contraption that kids use when they are learning. Only if he wants. Or maybe we will try ice skating next.

Apollo had the adjustable plastic skates for kids. His feet weren't big enough for the smallest skates yet. They were a lot easier to move around in than blades. Easier to balance. Plus they didn't roll well. He basically walked around in them and did the occasional split. He was okay with it all. He had a fascination with all the numbers the rink had on the walls.

After their hard work, we visited the arcade section. It wasn't much of an arcade I'm afraid. Most of the machines were out of order. Unfortunately, we got a good amount of tokens before looking at the games. It all worked out. They ended up with some tickets and picked out a few prizes (including cotton candy). I think it was a good overall experience. I hope we do some more new things soon.

10.28.2018

Happy Birthday!

I can't believe time has gone by so fast. Lucian is 8 today. Apollo is 3 today. They have grown so much; physically and mentally. Each boy has been blooming in their own personalities. Lucian is creative, intelligent, and innovative. Apollo is imaginative, quick-witted, and curious. They are so much alike, yet, so unique. Today we plan to let them decide what they want to do. They each have a little cake that they picked out. They have some presents to open. I also wrote down a few activities they may be interested in. Mostly including some type of trick or treating. We did celebrate their birthdays early this year. Their Grammy came to visit for a week recently, and they were able to open some of their presents and have some cake. They mostly smashed their monster cupcakes into a giant much pile, but it was fun. They were able to promptly wash off in the bathtub. Currently, they are playing a brotherly game of minecraft while watching Peppa Pig on an Ipad. It's amusing watching it. They can't really do both at the same time. So they play a little bit of minecraft and when they hear something that peaks their interest, they pause and watch the show. Happy birthday my babies. Mama and Daddy are proud of you.

10.11.2018

Woops, skip to Fall

Apparently we have been busy this summer, and I haven't updated. Or it could partially be due to the computer hard drive failing at the same time as my tablet wifi chip stopped working. Either way, I'm a bit behind.

Right now, I am standing at my old computer trying to have patience with the uncooperative keyboard. The boys took a trip up to Nana and Papa's house for the week. I have been so lonely without them. Their hugs and beautiful smiles. It is currently fall break, and we wanted to make sure the boys were able to get some quality time with each other and their grandparents. I wish it was easier for us to visit everyone. I'd love for the boys to spend more time with my side of the family. I would like that too. It has been a few years since I(we) have seen some people. Hopefully, the upcoming year will bring some travel.

So what has been going on around here? Well, over the summer we gardened, played at some new parks, ventured to the outdoor pool, started Lucian on a bike without training wheels, and started considering house buying. Lucian began second grade. He seems to like it so far. He has a friendly teacher who is also challenging and has made some new friends. He still loves to play video games. Apollo has joined him in playing minecraft. Against my own will, I had to learn to play a little bit in case he asks during the day. Joseph pulled out the old xbox and they have been trying out one of the halo games. Lucian is really good at picking up new games. I was seriously impressed. He still also plays Roblox on the ipad.

Apollo has started to become more independent, more vocal, and more interactive with other kids. He is still quite timid and prefers to observe, but has started venturing into playing with other kids. Though, he prefers his brother. He still loves to be outside and anything related to water balloons(or maybe just water).

Toward the end of summer and into fall, we have gone to the two different apple orchards.Though we didn't pick apples at the first one, we picked a bushel and some pumpkins at the second. Hopefully, we juice/cook/eat them before they start to rot. I've been eating them daily! Lucian has become more adventurous with the apple picking. He independently and willingly climbed into the trees with me to reach apples higher up the tree. Apollo was great at collecting the apples into the bags for us. He also became more adventurous in the pumpkin field. No matter how many times he tripped, he would get right back up and search for more pumpkins. He found quite a bit of them. We ended up getting four: 2 white, 2 orange. Lucian really likes the white ones, and we all had a fun time searching through all the vines to see if we could find any. Luckily we did!

In September, Lucian was very sick with a stomach virus. He missed a week of school after getting sent home from vomiting. After not improving from the stomach pain after 24 hours we ended up at the hospital to make sure it wasn't appendicitis. It wasn't. Thank goodness. Though we did keep him there a few days for fluids and pain meds through an IV. He wasn't keeping much down, especially any pain medications. Poor kiddo. It eventually passed. I am very proud of how strong he was through all the discomfort. Apollo was lucky enough not to get it.

We have been back to a normal routine up until now for fall break. Soon it will be their birthday. I can't believe they will be 3 and 8. Time really does fly. I wish it would slow down so I don't miss anything, but I'm excited to watch them grow. They have so many similarities and just as many differences. They love each other and annoy each other. Best of all they get to grow together. It is truly beautiful.

5.29.2018

Moving on

The school year has ended. First grade is past us. I'm sad to see him grow, but I haven't been prouder. Lucian is a shining star. He is a kind, unique child. This past week we were able to watch him be promoted from the first grade. They had a cute little ceremony where all the kids in each class were called to the stage and handed an envelope with their "awards" as they walked across and shook hands. The classes designed a red carpet made out of paper for them to walk down. Each side had individual pictures with hand prints and names of the students. They concluded the ceremony with the kids singing "Roar" by Katy Perry. Lucian couldn't read the lyrics fast enough and wasn't too well versed on the song. He did his best. It was cute to say the least.

He had three ribbons in his envelope. The first one was a ribbon saying he was promoted to second grade. The second one was the citizenship award. He was chosen as citizen of the month earlier in the year. The third one was for A-B honor roll. We aren't really sticklers on grades. Especially at this age, he doesn't need that type of pressure from us. We just encourage him to do his best. But, he also doesn't like to lose, so that may be his own personal push.

Now that we are officially on Summer vacation, we are just trying to have some fun. He finished his current soccer season right before school ended, and they had a picnic on the last day of school. It was a good way to end the season/school year and start vacation. They had little goodie bags with small water guns in them. All the kids pulled them out and raced along the playground getting each other wet. The water fountain had quite the crowd of eager participants.

Yesterday (memorial day), we took a family trip to the children's museum. It was nice to have us all go for once. During the school year, I would take Apollo during the day. It's a nice place to go in winter to get out of the cold. Now that they have opened the outdoor sports area, I've been wanted to check it out while it's nice. Though it was way too hot out, Lucian and I braved the outdoor heat and brightness for a little bit. He tried the basketball area first. I thought it was way too bright. I could barely open my eyes it was so reflective (the ground was yellow). Next time we need to take sunglasses. We were going to try the soccer area next, but ended up going into the hockey area, which was right before the soccer area. I've been trying to convince Lucian to play hockey for a few years now. He always tells me no. I think he is afraid of the whole skating thing. Luckily, the outdoor hockey area didn't need skates. It was roller hockey. Let me tell you, he is REALLY good. I was impressed how quick he picked up on it. He has a pretty good slap shot. It may be all those years we played mini golf and regular golf. He seems to be a natural with stick sports. He is still reluctant to try skating... how young can they start field hockey? Either way, I'll keep trying to get him to the skating arena.

Today, Lucian started volleyball camp. We signed him up for a couple different camps to get him to try new things and keep him busy. This allows some interaction with other kids around his age and keep his mind off being bored or relying on electronics. This was a fairly new sport for him. I thought they did a good job introducing basic movements. It's at the high school and several of the high school volleyball players were there to help and work with the kids. I was only able to watch here and there because Apollo was getting bored. I don't think Lucian has formed an opinion on it yet. We will see.

We started our garden within the last month. It has been so hot lately, we have been trying to maintain as much moisture as we can. We do have some things growing. We need to keep up with the weeds a little bit more. Hopefully, some more things will pop up.

Apollo has been adjusting to having Lucian home. He's been a little more grumpy and territorial, but I think he is getting there. He has also been attached to my leg lately. Anytime I go to work, he has a partial meltdown. At least it is nice out right now, he usually does better when occupied outdoors. He is an outdoor kid for sure. We stocked up on water balloons, and purchased a second hose, to keep them both busy outside. Otherwise, he is getting pickier, talking a lot more, and napping less. Sometimes it is aggravating when they fight, but it is pretty funny to hear Apollo's side of the story sometimes. He has a different perspective on life for sure. We need to work on the whole what really happened/truth thing.

That is pretty much it for the moment. We've been looking at houses lately and taking the boys to a few open houses. They have a thing about running in circles in empty rooms. I don't know, they like it. Maybe we will find the right place for us soon.

5.01.2018

Is This Spring?

The weather seems to finally be normalizing. The sun has been shining. The dandelions are peeking out. The trees are, finally, budding. I'm so ecstatic to see green everywhere. We are starting to prepare our gardens. Joe cleaned out a lot of our containers yesterday in preparation. Lucian planted some seeds. We checked out the condition of one of our garden plots the other day. I am really excited to start planting soon. We tried to start some plants inside this year. The delay in weather killed most of them. But I'm hoping we can save a few that are still sprouted. I think the lack of sunlight in our house didn't help either. We have all North facing windows, which is pretty much the worst for sunlight.

Lucian's year of first grade at his new school is starting to come to an end. This is, officially, his last month as a first grader. I was glad to see him do well this year. He has made some friends, likes his teacher, and says he likes his school this year (probably due to the first two things). Today as I was driving him to school, he told me he really liked school trips. We recently went to the zoo as a field trip. Even though it was chilly and rainy, everyone seemed to have a good time. It was very rushed, I wish they could have had longer. Unfortunately, all the picnic tables were soaked, and they decided to bus back to the school for lunch. The kids were starving at the point, since they usually eat a lot earlier in the day. We joined the kids for lunch in their classroom. It was nice. Apollo had fun too. I think he wants to go to school with Lucian. He must miss him during the day.

Apollo is currently watering the grass in the yard. The kid loves water. We were going to go to the park today and get some energy out, but when we stopped home he took one look at the water table they filled yesterday and decided that was a better choice. It started with the water table and escalated to the hose. Now everything is getting a spray down. Including Burnie, who was standing in the wrong place at the wrong time. Though he moved, I know he doesn't mind it too much. At least he watered my lemon balm!

So what are the boys into now? Well, Lucian still loves watching videos on youtube kids. He learns about different video games that he plays. He is into the game Roblox right now. It's a game similar to minecraft where you take your character into different games. It's funny seeing him play a game where a bunch of players are doing everyday things. Some examples are: riding an elevator, plowing snow, running a pizza shop, or going to high school. There are some weird ones too and also some violent ones. He also still really enjoys playing minecraft and building levels in super mario maker. We have been playing a lot more board games lately too. Outside of the house, we have been going to the park after school on nicer days. It helps keep his mind off electronics. Plus, we could all use fresh air. As for sports, this spring he is currently playing soccer. He is enjoying it, and he is pretty decent. I like to watch all of his practices because I work during his games. I'm sad to miss them, but I'm glad Joe and Apollo go root him on. This summer he is going to be super busy. We have him joined into many events. Such as soccer camp, reading group, inventor camp, and possibly swim lessons. Invention camp seems fun, they are supposed to be making a robot and studying robotics. His school has a robotics club, so maybe this will get him more interested in joining something like that.

Apollo looooooooves Paw Patrol. He picked the video off the shelf to watch not too long ago and has loved it ever since. Within the last few weeks, he has found the paw patrol toys that have been hiding out among the toys. Now we play paw patrol every day. We also watch a lot of paw patrol. I did reintroduce him to Little Einsteins the other day to mix it up. He seemed to like it. We have also been playing a lot of trains, coloring, and play dough. We've been slowly making out way through the costco sized play dough bag I bought. Joe thought I was nuts, but now he thinks it was brilliant. Because it was ;-)

Now I'm going to hang out with Apollo as he watched Paw Patrol and eats his frozen sesame bagel (it's his thing lately, I don't know). I'll try to post again soon.

3.15.2018

The never ending winter

This winter seems longer than most. The skies have teased us with sunlight and temporary warmth, than blasted us with brutal winds and snow. The world seems disrupted in an uproar of political spasm. I watch my boys grow each day. It gives me hope that the warmth will soon come. Maybe the sun will bring everyone to rest. Allow us all to simply get along.

I long for the chance to get out in the garden, to enjoy the parks, to try something new this year. This summer will hopefully involve camping, gardening, and horseback riding. We haven't taken Apollo on horses yet. I feel this year would be a good opportunity. Maybe try some other things we haven't done yet. We haven't gone to any pools since we moved up here. So maybe we will try that out this summer as well.

Lucian is signed up for soccer, which should start in a few weeks. We have been talking about putting both boys in swim lessons this summer as well. It's hard, since summer is so short. School restarts in the midst of what we knew as summer break. It really limits the time frame to try new things. I think we will also send Lucian to soccer camp again this year. It's not an overnight camp. He really liked it last year. Now that he speech is constantly improving, I hope it will be easier for him to connect with other kids. Maybe make some true friends.

Apollo is milking his toddler years. Enjoying the fact that he gets to stay home while his brother leaves for school. He does miss him though. The bigger he gets, the more things they are able to do together. They can actually play and have fun. Of course, there is a lot of fighting as well. They are siblings after all. Taking each others toys and deliberately annoying one another. It can be frustrating at times, but I actually kind of enjoy it. Through the disagreeing, they find a solution or they are separated. It gives them a glimpse into their potential closeness, into how much they are alike, into the unfair world. So, yes, I enjoy that they are unknowingly learning about themselves and the world around them. They will understand the importance of their relationship when they get older. For now, let them play, let them disagree, let them learn.

On the upside, Lucian has been going through an eating strike since being back in school. He thinks he can survive off of macaroni and cheese and lunchables. Ok, not quite that extreme. Though he would probably survive, he wouldn't be very healthy. He has been retrying and trying new things. We have been trying to re-expand his food palate. He has discovered he actually does like mango, and still dislikes anything in the squash category. Apollo, on the other hand, seems to be even pickier. He straight out refuses to eat anything the color green or that may have a sliver of green touching it. I can only hope we outgrow that sometime soon. Until then, one day at a time.

1.13.2018

New Year

A new year is among us. We have all survived (barely it seems with everyone being sick). Yet, here we are, almost the year of the dog. I can proudly say I made it to midnight for once. I rang in the new year alone. As everyone else was asleep. It was nice and quiet. Just me and my book. Aw.

This new year has already been adventurous. We've had lots of cold weather, ice, and snow. Apollo had his first real sledding moment down a hill. He wasn't excited about it. He was sitting on my lap and we were pushed down a hill by our house. It was dark and cold out. He seemed happy at first. Then we hit a little hill at the bottom, and a big spray of snow went right into his face. He immediately started crying. I put him in the car to warm up and calm down.

Lucian, however, had a great time on the hill. He has really warmed up to these types of activities. He had his own tube to use and was good about walking it back up. He flew down pretty fast if you ask me. I don't think he wanted to go home yet, but it was too cold to stay out too long. So we drove home, put warm clothes on, and drank hot chocolate.

We've had more snow with a little warmer weather recently. Lucian didn't care about going outside, but Apollo was all about it. I think he was just genuinely interested in the snow. He was even willing to put snow pants on this time around. He had a lot of fun in the short time we were out there. He was throwing snow at Daddy and me, shoveling snow with his pretend frying pan, and tossing handfuls into the air, watching it rain back on top of himself. I feel like he has come a long way with his explorations.

Otherwise, we've mostly been hanging out inside with this frigid weather. Sometimes we all do our own things. Sometimes we play family games, like Mario Bros. Even Apollo helps out on the gamepad. I've also been trying to get the boys into reading more. We used to read a lot with Lucian when he was little. Now that we've been working on reading, writing, and speaking, we have been trying to incorporate more books that he can read to us. He huffs and puffs about it because he'd rather do other things or have us read to him, but I think he does have a small bout of accomplishment when he realizes he could read some of a book. He has a weekly library class at school and always brings home interesting titles. One of us will read the book with him. I've also been pushing Apollo to read more with me during the day. Sometimes when we are having a snack or just sitting around I'll ask him if he wants to read a book. He usually answers with "No book", but I pull some out anyways. He's such a curious kid. It would be a shame not to force him to look in a book. He's always asking "what's that?"

I'm enjoying the snow. But I'm looking forward to Spring. Looking forward to Lucian playing soccer, planting a garden, and riding bikes. I think it's time to find dance or gymnastics classes for Apollo. He loves music, dancing, and downward dog. Maybe there is a toddler and mom yoga class? That could be good for both of us. Mostly my sanity. Thank goodness we go to the Children's museum frequently! It's been a great escape from the house. Plus, there are so many things to wear him out. If I'm being honest, it wears me out too. The loud noises and fluorescent lights and a killer. I'm being beckoned by the little guys. Time to be Luigi.

10.26.2017

Go Nuts For Donuts

Today I took donuts into Lucian's school. He requested donuts to celebrate his birthday this year. Tomorrow they are having a celebration for Halloween (typical party), so he wanted donuts the day before. I went to Dunkin' Donuts and picked out Halloweenish yeast donuts in a few colors. I ended up with purple, pink, and brown. They had lovely sprinkles on top. His teacher requested I bring them at lunch time. Probably because they go out for recess right after and that is a great time to run off sugar. I decided to take him some lunch at the same time. He wasn't thrilled with the idea, but was happy in the end. I ended up bringing him mac and cheese. He was probably glad to have a warm meal. I passed out the donuts to all his classmates in the cafeteria. I did feel bad for the other classes who had lunch at the same time. They had major donut envy. I think that gave Lucian a couple bonus points with his friends (and some day friends). I'm glad he was able to feel special and cool.

Tomorrow, at lunch, he is receiving an award for being a good citizen. I'm not sure if he knows about it. One of us will be going in to lunch to watch him get announced. He makes me so proud.

10.09.2017

The Start of October, Smells Like Fall

It's no surprise that October is my favorite time of year. Fall, pumpkins, and the birthday season; what's not to love? We started our October by going to a pumpkin patch and festival. We bought eight pumpkins to start our fall pumpkin collection. By the time Halloween rolls around, we should have a vast collection. Some painted. Some carved. The ultimate image of Fall.

So far this fall we have already gone apple picking, pumpkin picking, festival going, cider drinking, and went to pumpkin town at the zoo. I'd say it's been pretty successful so far! I'm excited to do more apple picking so we can get a good storage of home-juiced apple juice. Maybe we can even mull some into cider this year. I'd also like to make dumplings this year. I've been too busy the last few years to make more apple dumplings. Now that we have an extra freezer, I'll have a place to store them as well.

The boys.
Man they are growing too fast. Lucian is in first grade. They are currently on fall break, so I get to see him more during the day. I like that. As much as I love having time with Apollo, I like spending time with both my boys. He has been doing well at school. He says he doesn't care for it, but never complains about going. I just hope he is able to make some new friends this year. That's the hardest thing about school these days, being able to socialize. Seems odd, I know. They are so strict these days about when kids can and cannot communicate with each other. Anyways, he has a good teacher who he seems to like and he is willing to go. That's enough for us.

Apollo is turning into a toddler. He is cranky, opinionated, and wants what he wants right now. All that being said, he has a lot of interests and a pretty long attention span. He loves to build train tracks, play cars, and interact with stuffed toys. He most favorite thing is being outside. Everyday we go outside and ride feet powered "bikes". We ride up and down our road until we need to get a drink. Mama's legs sure get a work out. It's fun and we get to enjoy the outdoors. I've also been taking him on solo trips to the museum, zoo, and playgrounds. We need to find him some friends to go with. He's okay with other kids, but he isn't much of a socializer. Lucian is more interactive that way. Apollo is more of a watcher. Then he goes off and does his own thing. Unless Lucian is there. Then he is loves to play with his brother.

I'm always surprised with time. The days seem long but the years are short. That's what people are always saying. I think the days go pretty fast. Too fast sometimes. I've been trying to enjoy the moments. Let the kids pick the movie, buy the dippin' dots, and stay at home at least once. Because in the long scheme of things... I'd rather see smiles.

7.21.2017

Summer 2017

I guess I need to get off my butt and write a few more blog posts. I'm sure a lot has happened. I'm sure I have forgotten so much already. It was a tough spring/beginning of summer. We had a month of the chicken pox. The isolation is enough to bring the weary drearies, but otherwise we faired well. We weren't completely isolated. We did take quite a few walks around the neighborhood to get some fresh air, and played outside in the yard. There just wasn't a lot of interaction with other people. All has healed since then, and the boys have gained a lifetime of immunity. A small inconvenience really.

Lucian missed the opportunity to do an outdoor summer camp due to being contagious, but I managed to get him into a soccer camp. It was a few hours during the day for 3 days. He seemed to really like it. He is looking forward to his next soccer experience. I think he does better with intense programs where coaches push you more rather than in laid back programs. I might have to find a more intense program for fall soccer.

We've been trying to get out and do things. We have been trying to go to the Children's museum and Zoo; at least one of them weekly. We started a garden plot this year, but the boys don't seem to enjoy that experience very much. It's a big plot, buggy, and directly in the sun. At least they get to play with the hoses, right? We have hit some local playgrounds and splash pads. There are a lot of parks around the city, it's nice to try different ones. Summer is going way too fast.

Lucian starts first grade next week. He seems to be dreading it, but we will see how it goes. I'm excited to get him back into speech therapy. I'm also excited for him to have the opportunity to make new friends. It's not the easiest thing for him to do, but he does try.

Yesterday, we went to Daddy's kickball game. There were a few other kids there, and he played with them a little bit. He was on the younger side, so the older kids weren't all that nice to him. Apollo didn't seem to care though. He had a grand old time running around the basketball court disrupting their playing. He also was throwing Kirby around like a ball. He loves Kirby, and refused to leave him in the car. Naturally, Kirby was dragged around the field and along the tiny play area.

I gave Lucian a workbook to do for the summer. It was a fairly easy one. It was meant to be between kindergarten and first grade. We told him he could get a prize if he finished it. He did it. I wasn't sure if he would want to do it. He surprised me though. He wasn't always motivated, but if he didn't work on it for awhile I would have him do a page or two. Five pages later he would decide he was done. He made it through the book and picked out a prize. We are now proud owners of two plasma cars (ride on cars). They are pretty fun. When you move the steering wheel back and forth it moves forward. If the steering wheel is flipped and then moved back and forth it moves backward. It can also be moved by foot power. Naturally, we couldn't get one. They both HAD to have one. So, we bought two cars and some rainbow cones. Looks like we will be racing in the near future.

Apollo has been into books and drawing. It's a nice break from eating cat food with Burnie. Everyday, we read a couple books. He mostly points at things and says "what's that?" I'm ecstatic. Since Lucian didn't talk at this age he would point to find objects we'd mention, or point to things he wanted me to say. I don't think most parents understand how nice it is to just have simple things said to you. Truly taken for granted. It's such a different pace. Lucian wasn't usually interested in books. Apollo seems to enjoy it. We also draw together a lot. No piece of paper is safe in this house. We have to move important documents to high places. We utilize all types of material. We use dry erase markers on our mini white boards, we use legal pads with pens, we use coloring books, and rolls of easel paper. He likes markers, crayons, pencils, and pens. He has no problem hiding and stealing them from you too.

As I mentioned earlier, Apollo has been attached to Kirby. We have a lot of mario themed stuffed plushies. Apollo personally loves Kirby and Yoshi. We play plushies almost daily. It used to be a Lucian game, now it seems everyone enjoys it. It's not my favorite, but I love my babies. It's been really great for my imagination. Plus, it's a nice break from playdough (I'm pretty sure it's all dried up) and marble run. I really enjoy marble run. It's fun building him little marble masterpieces. Not fun when he immediately destroys it out of anger. Glad he gained our stubbornness. Insert giant eyeroll here.

Summer is coming to a close and I am sad. We didn't really have one with all the illness and travels. Now my big guy will be going into first grade. My little guy might need to participate in a Mommy and me class. It will make him feel better. Ok, it will make me feel better. I have to snuggle on someone.

Things to look forward to:
October, Visit grandpa, Joe not travelling for work

I know this was long but it's been awhile. Lots of Love.

4.16.2017

Hoppy Easter

We had a very busy week. We went out of town earlier in the week and stayed at a hotel. The hotel had a pool and a hot tub. Though we were only there for two days, we took advantage of the pool and hot tub each time. Apollo loved going back and forth from the pool to the heat of the hot tub. Lucian had fun too. He even found two other kids playing in the pool on the last night. They all played together. Lucian was amazed that they didn't need a float in the pool. The girl was even doing flips into the pool. It was fun to watch. While we were down there we also checked out some local food places, played in the kids area of the mall, and checked out a local mini golf. All of those things made a fun trip. It was really for Joe's work, but we were able to use the time for fun. The most exciting thing about the whole trip was Lucian losing his first baby tooth! It has been loose for a little while now and his big tooth was starting to pop through. So we knew it would be falling out any day now. We figured he would be eating something and off it would go. That's not what happened, of course. He went to drink a cup of apple juice and his tooth popped right out. He took a sip, turned to me and said "look!" It's official. He's no longer a little baby. (Okay, maybe to me he is.)

After the trip we came home just in time for speech and soccer. He has really been enjoying soccer and even asked me to teach him some more skills. I'm excited to start doing that with him. He had his first game Saturday (yesterday) and pictures for the team. I will hear more about pictures in the next few weeks. I wasn't sure how the games were going to go because they haven't gone over too many things. Luckily, they teach during the games to help the kids understand the positions and stuff. Lucian was awesome. He didn't score any goals, but he definitely killed it. He is a very persistent player and has a lot of spunk. The assistant coach even talked to me after the game about how different he was in the game than practice. I giggled to myself. He apparently has the competitive gene. The team won. I think the score was 7-0. He had fun and was very excited that his team won.

Then we followed that up with an Easter egg hunt with his friends. He had an entire basket full of eggs. Usually we go to hunts and he only gets a few eggs (like the weekend beforehand). He usually gets sad about it because nobody follows the rules and they all push in front of him before the hunt starts. This time he was ecstatic. He had a huge smile. Even his grumpy little brother had fun. The other egg hunt we went to that day was a little crazy. There were tons of people. The boys got a decent amount of eggs. Enough to make them happy at least. We left right away because it was so busy and hot out.

Today we went to the zoo. This was the first time we were able to go to the dolphin show. I'm glad we did. The boys enjoyed it and so did we. Plus it was slightly rainy and the show was inside. Apollo had a hard time sitting through the whole thing. I think he wanted to go swim with the dolphins. He is such a water baby. Next, we ate and played at the zoo playground. Then, I convinced the boys to search for the egg pictures scattered around the zoo. If you find ten of the locations you get a prize. We found a few, played some more, and Joe took Apollo into the aviary. Apollo loved being in with the birds and having birds land on them. Lucian rode his first roller coaster with Daddy while we were there. It was a small one that did two laps. There was one other first timer on as well. Lucian thought it was great and wanted to ride again. The other kid wasn't into it. We collected the last few egg locations from the gardens and turned it in for a prize. Lucian picked out a blue zebra printed egg that had a small cheetah figure in it. We all drove home with smiles. Well, Apollo was sleeping.

After nap time, the boys dyed some eggs. Then I spread out some eggs in the field for them to collect. They got all the eggs and looked through their goodies. This year they had: fruit snacks, some smarties, little stampers, quarters, a pass for 30 minutes on the game pad, bunny crackers, and one fruit pouch. Apollo enjoyed getting stamps all over himself. Lucian was excited to have a 30 minute game pad pass.

We had dinner at a Pho restaurant. It went over pretty well. They were out of broth for udon though, boo. Lucian tried his first sushi tonight: eel cucumber roll. He ate half the roll, minus the cucumber. After that we went to a playground per Lucian's request. We decided to go to a new one we saw the day before. It was a cool older playground. It had metal slides, a merry-go-round, and even see-saws. We tried everything out. The boys favored the merry-go-round. Then we finished the evening with a friendly kickball game with another family that was there. They invited us to play, which was really nice. All the kids were really nice and were impressed by Lucian's ability to chase someone down to get them out. It was mostly the kids playing with Joe and I assisting here and there. Then we finished it off with their dad joining in. It was me and their dad vs the kids. We gave them a run for their money, but they were tough. All in all, it was a good day. We kept pretty busy but did fairly relaxing, enjoyable activities. I was very impressed with Lucian this weekend. He surprised me by trying new things and discovering the he actually enjoyed those things.

Now it's almost time for gardening season! We rented a garden plot this year. Our seeds are ready to be sowed. We pulled out the sidewalk chalk, water table and sprinkler. Lets do this Summer!

2.20.2017

Slacking 2017

Apparently, I have been slacking already in 2017. My posting has really dragged and I'm sorry! It's often hard to get on the computer to update. Nobody likes when I'm on here. Or I start and someone commandeers the computer. Either way, I'm on here now. At least for a little bit.

So, the weather has been pretty crazy around here. One day it will be 60 degrees out and the next it will be snowing. I love snow, but I admit, I have spring fever. I'm looking forward to warmer weather, gardening, and rain. Rain gets a bad rap, but I rather enjoy it. Plus, hoodie weather may be one of my favorite times.

Things to look forward to come spring:
Lucian playing soccer again.
Sewing hoodies and short sleeve shirts for the boys.
Starting our garden for the year.
Flying kites.
Traveling to the World Massage Festival in NC.
Opening the windows.
Playgrounds.

The nice thing is, we've been spending the last few days outside enjoying the weather. It's been really nice. Riding bikes, scooters, and kicking balls around. It's a nice break from pushing cars around and playing wii. We even went to a new playground the other day. There are lots of places I've been wanting to check out.

Yesterday, we went to the Indy zoo. It was super busy. The sun was shining. It was a lovely day. We even enjoyed some dippin' dots, which we never get. Unfortunately, I didn't take any pictures. It was too busy for me to lug around my nice camera and my phone memory is full (I should deal with that next). To be honest, we spent most of the time in the playground areas. The boys didn't seem to keen on viewing animals that day. Apollo was enamored by the flamingos nearby. Otherwise, nada. It was fun though. We were outside, enjoying the sun, and around other people. Busy zoo = lots of kids to play with. Even Apollo had a little friend. Luckily, we have a membership, so there will be more visits in the future.

12.18.2016

2 More Weeks of 2016

This year flew by. I don't think I wrote about nearly enough memories this year. Nor did I take nearly enough photographs. I will try to make up for it in 2017. It will have to become a goal. My boys have grown so much. I'm trying not to miss a beat, but I feel like I always am.

Apollo is running, per usual, and developing his toddler body (and personality). We are officially in the lay on the floor upset stage. This is where life truly gets interesting and the personality of toddlers really start to shine. Though it isn't the most pleasant as a parent (insert dirty looks here), I kind of enjoy this stage when not in the moment. I know he is just learning and doesn't know how to handle all the stimulation around him and the emotions he is feeling. It is going to be a learning experience for everyone.

On a happier side, he goes up and down the slide on his own. Yes, he was doing that before. Now he isn't scared to go down on his bum. Before, he would turn himself around so he could slide down on his tummy. He was too afraid of going down on his bum due to the lack of self balance. Now, he is perfectly fine going down on his bum without the fear of falling back and hitting his head. He is also into climbing the dining room chairs. He can climb right onto the seat. He likes to climb up and play with anything on the table or desk. I've caught him on the table a few times too. We try to discourage that.

Lucian has been pretty amazing. He has been reading signs here and there, drawing pictures, and making sound connections. I have changed up his learning a bit to get there. Before, we were always talking about letters and sounds of those letters. Now, I pick a few letters that sound similar or that is difficult for him and put them next to a vowel. We ignore any two letter words that sound differently and concentrate solely on the sounds they make. It has made an amazing difference. He figured out that he could make new words by adding letters to the end. He also used the idea of "sounding out" to figure out small words. We do this constantly and it has been great. Yesterday, we were in one of our old favorite stores (it's closing) and we were looking at a few things. He read two signs while we were in there. One said apple and had a picture of an apple on it. The other said go and was just green. He was carrying around a legal pad and pen that we were making notes on. The next thing we knew he was showing us a picture he drew of an apple and wrote apple next to. I was very impressed. And almost in tears. We have worked so hard, and it's showing. Then he looked at the sign that said go. He kind of spelled it out and looked at me. "Go?" he asked. I assured him he was correct, and gave him a big hug. Those are the moments I cherish. An hour or so of chaos with this one beautiful moment squeezed in between. He is learning, he is growing, and I am helping him achieve that.

I have some amazing kids. Even when they are angry, ungrateful, or annoying. They are truly amazing, and can achieve amazing things.

11.03.2016

Birthday Boys and Halloween

This year has flown by! I cannot believe Apollo is officially a one year old and Lucian is six years old. They have grown so much this last year. One is turning into a toddler and the other has turned into a small child. I'm afraid to blink at this point. I might miss them turning into adults.

Lucian is six, wow, six. He started school this year. He is learning to read, write, and speak. His language skills have improved. I've been working with him on making difficult sounds, writing letters, and increasing his vocabulary. He isn't enthusiastic about reading, but he will listen to a book if I make him. He likes to have fun and play games. I have been trying to make educational games for him to work on different concepts. He recently learned the game "horse". Now that we have a little basketball net inside (thanks Grammy), we've been getting creative. Lucian likes video games. He is a gamer to the heart. He likes to play minecraft, online computer games, kirby, mario bros games, plants vs zombies, and, most recently, smash brothers. I think he is more technological than I am. That's ok with me. I've accepted my fate! At least I will have someone to teach me gaming lingo.

Current favorites:
Food: Tacos
Drink: Apple Juice
Game:  Video: Minecraft  Board: Candyland
Color: All the colors of the rainbow except green, yellow, and black
Book: Five little pumpkins, Speedy little Racecars, Where's Waldo
Thing to do: Play video games


Apollo is quite the spunky one year old. He likes to crawl, climb, and is almost walking. He has done at least 10 consecutive steps by himself. He is very independent. Apollo loves to be outdoors. Now that he can communicate a little bit (he points, grunts and shakes his head), he often points to the door. He also crawls to the door whenever it is opened. The toddler ATV we've had since Lucian was little is one of his favorite things to do. Now he also enjoys playing in the ball pit (a nice step up from my makeshift cardboard one), climb up the slide and go backwards down on his belly, and push cars around. It is nice to have something to do other than going up and down the stairs all day.  Plus, Lucian likes to play in the ball pit with him, and he likes playing with his big brother.  He is also a huge foodie. If you have it he wants it. He likes to try things that aren't considered food as well. He was devouring his cupcake on their birthday before we were done singing "Happy Birthday". That's pretty good, though, because he was waiting to eat it all day. He ate the entire thing too. He may have even asked for a second.

Current Favorites:
Food: bread and noodles
Drink: coconut water
Game: Peek a boo
Color: seems to be green
Book: Anything with pages
Thing to do: Throw things down the stairs, climb things

The boys had a great birthday. We celebrated at home on their actual birth date. We had cupcakes, chocolate coins, balloons with toys in them (requested yearly by Lucian), and all our mario brother plushies. I took a few videos but the pictures weren't coming out with the lighting and fast movements. They loved their cards and gifts and having Grammy visit. The day after, we had a little trampoline jumping party with some of Lucian's friends. Their Nana and Papa came to visit too! It was certainly a busy weekend. We attempted to trunk or treat but it didn't work out (wrong times). But we were able to go out on Halloween and get a decent pile of candy.

This year the boys dressed up as Mario (Lucian) and Luigi (Apollo). I made their outfits as per tradition. We were going to dress up too, but I didn't get to our costumes. Oh well! Next year hopefully. I'm already conjuring ideas.

Thanks for stopping by for an update.  And a big thank you to everyone that called, sent a card or gift, or wished the boys a happy birthday. It's unusual for siblings to share a birthday, and we are trying to figure the whole thing out. So far so good. Now to update the pictures and events!

9.16.2016

Summer is Ending

This has been an unusual summer for us. Usually our summers are filled with daily activities. Whether we make trips to the pool, play in the park, pick fruit, or go to a festival, we always seem to have something going on. This summer has been laid back. We haven't been to any pools or splash pads. We only went to one or two festivals. We barely went to the farmer's market. We went to the park a few times and we picked some strawberries. Not our usual summer for sure. Luckily fall is coming upon us and opening up our yearly harvesting fun. There will definitely be plenty of pumpkins outside our door and apple juice in our freezer. Looking forward to some fun in fall.

We did visit one apple orchard this past weekend. After we arrived, we decided not to pick apples. The trees were heavily picked already and it was very muddy from rain. Even though we were all sporting our gum boots (minus Apollo), we thought it best to let the kids play in the play area instead. Even that was difficult with all the mud, but they seemed to have a good time. It made me excited to check out other orchards and, hopefully, pick some delicious apples. I see apple juice, dumplings, and applesauce in our future. It's a good adventure for the whole family. Lucian already enjoys those trips, we hope Apollo will too.

Lucian has been doing well in school. He still gets frustrated when people can't understand him, but he has come a long way. He will soon be starting small speech therapy sessions during school. He has his own accent (kind of british-like, really), but I hope being around all the other kids' accents of his diverse school isn't too much for him. We plan to switch his school for the upcoming year anyway. I just know how hard it is for people not to understand you and to not be patient on either side. It's difficult for him, but I know he's strong and willing. He surprises me every single day. He will be having a field trip coming up next week. They are going to an apple orchard. Joseph is going to chaperone. This will be his first field trip experience with a class. Today is also his first picture day at school. I can't wait to see how he hams it up. Considering how much I photograph him, he is probably a pro. He is getting so big. I can't believe he will be 6 next month. He still enjoys video games, board games, reading books, and watching How it's Made. His favorite color is dark blue. His favorite board game is candyland. He loves to explore and learn. And is still very sociable. He makes lots of "best friends", including Apollo.

Apollo is quite the explorer. He isn't walking by himself yet, but he stands up randomly on his own and crawls very fast. He is very independent. He likes to do things himself and isn't much of a cuddler. Therefore, I must take full advantage when he crawls into my lap to play. He still loves all food. He especially gets upset when you don't share food with him. There isn't too many things that he doesn't like, but he definitely prefers a mix of things and lots of flavor. Apollo is a water baby. He loves anything to do with water. Water tables, pools, fountains, hoses, sinks, baths, and random cups of water. If it has water in it, it isn't sacred or off limits to this kiddo. At least we don't have to convince or force him to take a bath. He is usually willing to jump in. He is at the stage of pushing things around on the floor. His favorite thing to push around is an empty food container. He also likes to push around cars or anything that slides easily. He has also gotten good at stacking things. We were playing in the bathroom sink one day and he grabbed a stack of paper cups that were on the counter. I wasn't surprised to see him pull them off the stack one by one, but was utterly taken aback when I watched him carefully stacked several of them back together with such precision. Seriously, it was impressing. This little guy is going to be one next month. I'm excited for the next phase. but kind of sad to see my baby gone. He's practically a toddler already. We better pick lots of pumpkins to make up for it.

Though summer is coming to an end, great things will be upon us come fall.  I, for one, can't wait to live it up in the beauty of fall. Surround myself with harvested goodies and feast on the bounty!

8.10.2016

9 Months Strong For Apollo

It's official. Apollo has reached nine months alive and kicking. He is an eager little dude. Always getting into things, climbing, and trying to eat cat food. I think I will name him Mr. Independent.

So what does the little dude like? Anything he can get into his mouth. He loves food. It would be easier to list things he doesn't like because it's so much shorter. It's hard to say what is favorite foods are so far. If I had to guess I would go with buttered toast, mint, and grapes. He is all about flavor!

He has a developed pincer grip, which he finds very handy when terrorizing the cat food dish. I have removed quite a bit of cat food from his mouth (boy loves flavor). He also uses his new handy skills to try to open things like plastic baggies, boxes, and fruit pouches. Though unsuccessful, I find it quite impressive. 

We are at the stage of dumping and filling. The center of our living space has a bucket full of golf balls. Every day Apollo will make his way to the bucket and empty some of the contents onto the floor. Sometimes he will turn it into a game - roll the ball and chase after it. He is also trying to learn how to put things back into containers. He finds this a little bit more frustrating. I try to show him the they won't stay in while the container is upside down, but he hasn't quite caught on yet. Though he is doing quite a fine job picking up all the dried fruit snacks he dumped all over the floor. Some to eat and some for the bag.

My goodness those teeth! I haven't decided whether this is a good thing or a bad thing yet. But the power of nature that be decided Apollo will have his entire upper jaw protruding teeth at the same time. Poor guy has been teething like crazy. I would say there are at least six working their way through. In a few days time he has gone from two teeth to almost 8ish teeth. I sure will miss that gummy smile!

He isn't walking on his own yet, but is getting braver. He has been crawling for a while now, pulls himself up on anything he can, climbs the stairs like a pro, and has been pushing around the little jeep. Who needs a walker when you have an electric car you can push around? He has let go a few times when standing and has been walking one handed a little bit more frequently than usual. Walking (running) should be coming soon. Maybe not as quick as Lucian did because that boy skipped crawling altogether and only insisted on walking. Oh the joys of spirited and determined children!

Other things he enjoys: playing with the robot remote control (he can do it himself), being outside, playing with water in the sink, climbing on/riding/pushing the little atv jeep, paging through books and getting into his brother's stuff.

Nine months has been fun and way too fast. I can't believe how big he has gotten. as one adventure ends, another arises.

7.15.2016

Summer Fun

This past month has been somewhat adventurous. Most of our time outside of the house has been spent in the yard and field. Frisbee, scooters, and balls galore! Apollo and I spend time outside every single day. We walk up and down the street. Sometimes we check the mail multiple times. Mostly, it is the only thing that calms the little guy down. Walking him in our street often puts him down for a nap. He just loves to be outside. Today, he helped me (somewhat) clean out the vacuum. It was a good opportunity to spray himself with the hose and try to eat rocks. Unfortunately, Lucian didn't care to join us in that adventure. Can't say I blame him, but I'm sure he could have gotten creative with the hose as well. We have been getting back into rainbow water, which is always a good time. Especially now that we can be outside with all the messy colors. Plus, we fill all the containers with the hose. He left some completed test tubes outside our front door from this past week and it managed to survive through a few storms (even high winds). It has been harder to get the big guy outside. He thinks it's too hot and too bright outside. It is. Sometimes I can still get him outside. Or make him wear sunglasses.

Poppy came to visit for a bit over a week, which was awesome. Lucian loved every second. He said Poppy is his best friend. They played a lot. He got  lots of needed attention, so thank you Poppy. Plus, that allowed Joe, Apollo, and I to make our trip to Austin. It was very hot, Apollo was overstimulated, and veggies required a search. We had a lot of fun. Apollo did great on the flights, which is good to know. We also managed to break two umbrellas due to wind bursts. In the end, it was worth the trip. I really enjoyed being in that area.

We didn't do any major fireworks on the fourth. That was the day we flew back from Texas, and we all ended up being pretty beat. I think Joe did a few morning glories with the boys. That was about it. Those are my personal favorites anyways. On the other hand, the sound of fireworks went on for about a week before and after the holiday. So, we did get our share of the blasting sound. On the bright side, Southwest gives one complimentary alcoholic beverage on the fourth of July.

And now we are in July. Wohoo! Every year passes faster and faster. Where has the time gone? The boys' birthday is rapidly approaching. Fall should be here before we know it. Lucian starts kindergarten, officially, at the end of July. Apollo is going to be one and walking before I know it. I'm trying to enjoy the time I have with them, but it isn't always easy. Sometimes it is very difficult. On those days, I just look at them when they sleep and smile; knowing we all survived the day and it will all be ok. So when Apollo is screaming hysterically from lack of sleep and digestive issues, Lucian is pretending to decapitate plushies, and the cats are deliberately trying to make me crazy by running at the door and hiding under the car, I know this time will pass and I will look back at it and miss the little things. I'll miss the smile on Apollo's face when he gets to eat something new. I'll miss Lucian calling me a butt head and signing a catchy song about it. I'll miss when Lucian tells me that he loves me forever and wants me to snuggle him. I'll miss when either one gives me a hug for no reason without me having to ask. I'll miss when Lucian tries to trick me into giving him treats because he "wants to share it with" me. I look at them every single day and know I'm blessed with some really special children in my life.  Regardless of the struggles and hard times, we love and appreciate each other. Now if only time could slow down and we could enjoy our happy moments more. I'm afraid I might miss some important moments just by trying to capture them.

Live in the moment, make memories, or the moment will pass you by.

6.19.2016

Surviving the Heat

We have survived, so far.  It's been incredibly hot out. Very humid, minimal cloud coverage, and blazing temperatures. Lucian says it's too bright outside! At least it is no longer cold. That's how it is around here: complain about the cold, complain about the hot. Rain and storm weather are the only rejoice. We haven't been caught in any more storms recently, but we certainly have had tornado weather. I like to talk about the weather we experience. I find some of it quite odd. Plus, it is interesting to live in a tornado region where it isn't uncommon to hear sirens go off, to see tornado inducing storms, and super strong winds with freezing sideways rain. I've stayed up some nights just to watch in amazement. It truly is neat.

Ok, back to the boys. Lucian recently went through kinderstart, a two week kindergarten prep class. He liked it. Well as he put it "It's ok for one day". Not sure how he is going to do with 3 more hours of it each day for a full school year. Around here they start at the end of July and get out in, I think, June. It's a very long year for kids, and I don't really the all year round mentality. Kids need summer. They need a break just like adults do. They need to experience being a kid outside of an institution. Every time I go to the school I envision Pink Floyd's 'The Wall'. It truly is fitting. School is nothing like it was when I was a child. We didn't have desks, dress codes, and safe spaces. He did get a cool Minecraft back pack and was able to utilize his R2D2 lunch pail. He made some friends in his class, but he doesn't know any of their names (heh that's my boy). He seems to like his teacher as well, which is good. Right now, the plan is to start again in Fall and see how it goes.  I think it is going to be hard for him to go everyday all day, especially in winter when it gets dark so early. Joseph thinks he will do fine once he gets used to it. I guess I am just unconventional (and nonconforming). Worse comes to worse, I think I could be a really good teacher ;-)

Apollo is Mr. curiosity. He gets into anything he finds. He wants to eat everything too. It he sees food, he wants to try it. He has tried more things than I can count. There is very little that he doesn't like. That kid loves greens. Bitter? No problem, he will eat it. He pulls chard and mint from the garden and eats it. He loves plants and being outside. It makes him so happy. Even more than Lucian at that age. Being outside is instantly calming for him.  I'm starting to wonder if it has something to do with all the time I spent in the garden when I was pregnant with him. We go outside and walk everyday. We check the mail 3-5x a day. The neighbor probably thinks I'm nuts.  But he loves it, so why not? Now if I could only get him to keep a hat on his head. I'm always worried he is going to get burned on his head. He has strawberry blonde hair, so his scalp is still very visible. At the end of June, this little bugger will be 8 months old. He is able to crawl, he has mastered climbing the stairs, he can pull himself into a standing position, and walk with assistance. Lucian was definitely the better walker (he never crawled), but Apollo still loves to move like his brother.

They certainly have brotherly love. Lucian loves to go up to his brother and give him hugs. He has saved him from falling and hurting himself multiple times. He even includes him in games. Apollo gets a huge smile every time he sees his big brother. He always tries to crawl or walk to him. He loves to make his way into Lucian's bedroom to visit. Apollo will definitely be looking up to his brother. Lucian is such a good kid and brother. I don't know how I got so lucky.

We aren't without triumph. We have hard days too. Or, as Lucian puts it, "bad days". Days when Apollo refuses to nap and is cranky all day, or Lucian gets upset because we have to leave the house, or Mama and Daddy are frustrated because we can't get anything done. In the end, it doesn't matter. We are just blessed to have each other and the time we get to spend together. Even if it doesn't turn out the way we hoped!

Lastly, Happy Father's Day to Joseph! The Father of our house and our beautiful boys. Even when we all give him a hard time he is there for us. So thank you, for sticking with us even when the times get tough.