Indiana

Now that we are in Indiana, again, and partially settled in I can continue to write about what is going on in our lives. We are still in our temporary apartment until the end of July when we will relocate into our year long lease. Unfortunately, we ended up by the stadium, which was our last choice due to games, but I think we will do alright in the building we chose. I wish we were able to pick an apartment with more light rather than living in a cave, but we were just happy to be able to select our apartment. We picked a one bedroom on the first floor with easy access right by the pool and office area. The other first floor options were either partially engulfed in the ground or difficult to get to or didn't give us a lot of flexibility with our move in date. So we picked the best option. The nice part about this choice is that the porch area is even with the ground making for an easy move in experience. That will be a blessing when moving the washer and dryer. This apartment also had newer appliances than some of the others (which had olive green ovens eek!). I'm hoping that will be a bit more efficient when it comes to our energy bills. Overall, I think we made a good choice. A lot of the other places we looked at would not have been a ground floor apartment, and definitely would have required professional movers to save on the hassle. I'm excited to get over to the new place so we can finally unpack and organize everything! Poor Lucian has been living in 3-4 rotating outfits.

Lucian seems to be enjoying the area so far. I'm sure he will be a lot happier now that we won't be dragging him around all the time to look at apartments. We have been taking him down to the school to wander around and to a few of the parks. He has even enjoyed playdates with our friends who have a boy his age. It's been a change for us all and we are adapting the best that we can. Luckily, Joe will be starting training this upcoming week for his bus job, and I have been able to get some hours at the massage center I worked at previously. Overall, I think we will be a lot more settled and a little less stressed once we move into the new apartment and get into a routine. Just like with everything in life, we will find a grove that works for us and than have to change it all over again to something else that works. Oh well. Here are some updates about Lucian:

I attempted to measure him with a tape measure the other day and he is approximately 35 inches tall. He is getting big and heavy. He still wants me to carry him around though!

Likes:
playing in the creek
meeting new kids at the park
playing with legos
watching little einsteins
watching construction vehicles

Dislikes:
water that is spraying that he can't control
the dinging of the clocks on campus
saying goodbye
any type of squash

Thanks for stopping by and reading about our current adventures.

Moving

For everyone who doesn't know as of yet, we are moving back to Bloomington.  This will be occurring in the next few weeks.  Joe will be starting graduate school in the Fall in Statistics.  This is a big leap for us but it is time that we move on and do something with our lives other than parenting.  We will be in that area for the next 2-3 years.

Unconditional Love

How do you explain death to a child? How do you explain why you are crying and not in the mood to play? Our family has lost one of it's own. Newton is now at peace. No more suffering, no more pain. He was the glue to our unique family. This new year brought failing health and discomfort. We had to make the tough decision to put him to rest. The last week was the hardest. He wasn't eating very much and slept all the time. He wanted to be affectionate, but we could tell it was difficult.  He would jump into my lap and I would pet him, but after a few minutes he would reclaim a spot on the floor. He would run up and down the stairs like a kitten, but contact seemed painful. He lost a lot of weight, which the vet suspects is due to his thyroid. He was a fighter and as stubborn as the rest of us. Looking into his eyes daily was getting hard. I couldn't tell if he wanted us to give him a last final fight or if he wanted us to help him find peace. In the end, we chose peace. He had the biggest heart and showed us unconditional love. We owed him peace, love and respect. We have cried and buried him next to Lizzy so he will forever be in good company. We gave him some last wishes and topped it with some lovely flowers. It was very difficult to go through; I only hope he knows we meant well, that we love him, and that he went pain-free. He was a member of our family and he will be truly missed for all the happiness he brought our way.

Let's celebrate his wonderful life!

Before he became a part of our family, he was a stray for 5 years. Who knows how many little Newtons are running around Indiana. I hope many. We first met at the Bloomington Animal Shelter in 2009. Joe and I knew we wanted to get a pet - we chose a cat. We would go there often and scope out and play with all the kitties to get to know them. We narrowed it down to a little orange kitten and Newton (Blue Boy at that time). I was constantly drawn to Newton because he was such a gorgeous cat and his scar intrigued me. Every time I would visit, he would jump down from his chosen spot and greet me. He was definitely the alpha in the room and showed me often. I continuously visited him and he would hang out with me. It was very comforting and I knew we were meant to be together, I was routing for him the whole time! He didn't like anyone else- I found out from the staff later. When we adopted him I actually had to get him down and put him in his box because he wouldn't let the staff. I thought it was funny. He confirmed our decision when we brought him home. He meowed and tried to escape the entire ride to his new home. We barely made it inside when he punched through the side of the box, extended his claws like Freddy Kroeger, and tore a hole back through the box to make his escape. He didn't sleep for two days - and neither did we really because of it. We knew we made the right choice - no regrets.

Many more memories to share. I hope Joe and I can add some together.

In the meantime, find peace my friend.

April Flowers Bring May Showers?

The weather is getting tricky, sometimes warm sometimes cold, but we have finally been able to enjoy longer periods of time outside.  Even Newton has been venturing outside. Lucian is almost recovered from his facial injury and cold. He is still coughing on flem and has bruising around his eyes.  I'm hoping by mid week we will be clear of both. Hopefully he won't contract another illness by the time this one ends.  I feel myself getting weaker on top of it. Ugh! This year has been rough for illness. All of us have been getting hit hard. It's not just us either, others have said the same thing. People who rarely get sick have all been having a rough season.  I'm ready for warmer weather, but not hot. At least we can look forward to some good playground time!

We went to the park today, it was nice.  Lucian followed around this girl on a tricycle. He would push her for a little or just run behind her while she pedaled.  It was sweet.  We eventually had to drag him away crying, but we didn't want either to get hurt.  Lucian went down some slides, hung on bars, and climbed on one of the obstacles.  He is getting very good at climbing.  Then we played football for awhile and looked at the different plants and trash around the school. Because Lucian will find every piece of trash in the vicinity.

Lucian's Current Likes:
-Cars
-Airplanes
-Watching Little Einsteins, PnF, Gravity Falls, and Spongebob
-Sidewalk chalk
-Following other kids

Dislikes:
-Having to leave
-Not being allowed to behead the neighbors flowers
-Stuff on his hands
-Car Seat (unless candy or a treat is involved)

No Use Crying Over Spilled Milk

Typical Tuesday. Joe's at work and Lucian and I will be spending the day cleaning and playing.  Ok, I'll be cleaning while he plays.  Or I should say he does the opposite of cleaning. We started out with vacuuming. I asked him if he would like to help vacuum; he used to enjoy pushing the vacuum while it was on. Instead, he decided to rip up toilet paper all over the floor. Ehh no big deal.  I'll get to it. Hopefully laundry will be just as easy.

In between cleaning, he decided he needed a snack. I gave him a pumpkin muffin that I made yesterday, knowing that he will probably get crumbs all over the floor I just swept. I pulled out the chocolate milk to go with it and shook it all over the kitchen. Ugh! The lid wasn't on all the way apparently. Sigh. After I changed my clothes, I proceeded to wipe down the spilled milk with vinegar. I was hoping this wasn't a sign about how the rest of the day was going to go.

My spirits were immediately lifted when I returned to the living room to find Lucian sitting on the love-seat,  eating his muffin, and using my saute tongs to remove crumbs that dropped onto his legs. I couldn't help but laugh. He's so funny. How could you be upset about that? I must say that he was successful picking up the recent crumb that fell. It was a bigger crumb. He then ate it off the tong. Now that is smart. No mess, no waste. That's my boy!

March into March

Well 28-28 has passed and timed has flown through March. 28-28? Yes! Lucian turned 28 months on February 28th. Thus, 28-28. That's not going to happen again until he is 28 years old. And now he is almost 29 months old. It seems like only yesterday I was helping him walk around.  Like I read someone state earlier: the days seem long but the years fly by. So true. Some days I can't wait for bedtime, and other days I think 'wow he grew'. Though he is still my baby, he is no longer really a baby.

Lucian's personality has really been shining lately, even through the rough patches.  He seems to be changing in his speech patterns as well.  Though he may not be saying decipherable words, it is often clear what he wants. His blubbering has added a new dimension as if it is a little more defined. It's hard to explain. I just know that I have been noticing a difference.  I'm not forcing or pushing him to talk.  When he is ready, he will. We are going to give him the time he needs. All we can do is wait and encourage when necessary.

Today was the rain date for the local Easter egg hunt. We just returned from the park a little bit ago. He seemed to have an okay time collect a handful of eggs with the other toddlers. I took a few pictures.  Lucian even took a few random pictures of his feet.  He really likes the continuous shoot function on my camera apparently. He was even more excited to find chocolates inside the eggs. Mama was not so happy.  Last year we went to this hunt (right down the road) and the eggs had packets of goldfish and cookies in them.  Some contained free coupons for meals or ice cream at local fast food restaurants.  I don't want him to have cheap chocolate made with GMO sugar and questionable dairy products. That stuff can destroy your health easily. We just talked the other day about limiting our refined sugar intake outside of the house (we don't really have that stuff in the house).  It will be hard considering he is used to hitting up the bakery at our local grocer for a free (packaged ugh) cookie. You can imagine my disappointment when he opened his eggs to find a remaining pile of cheap chocolate candies full of things we don't want to support or consume. Before you think that he doesn't get any treats or chocolate, he gets plenty. We have a special collection of chocolate just for him that doesn't contain these unwanted ingredients.  So if you are planning on sending Lucian special 'treats' for the holiday please reconsider what you are sending. And to take the whole hunt one step further, I was returning the eggs to realize that everyone on the other side of the group had eggs filled with goldfish and cookie packets. *palm to the forehead*

Watching the Cat

Ever since Newton's escapade he has been very loving.  It makes me wonder if he thinks he was thrown out of the house? For those of you who don't know, our cat wandered outside in the night time and we didn't realize it.  He is black and it was dark.  Luckily he already had dinner at that point because it was pretty late.  We just thought he was in the basement for his after food slumber.  Come morning we couldn't find him anywhere and realized he must have gotten out.  Eventually he came back.  Must have been starving.  Luckily I heard him slamming and clawing at the front storm door.  It was raining so he was all wet.  He was a little roughed up too.  Must have had a rough time back out in the wild.  He was a stray for five years but has resigned to being an indoor cat.  Well now he's a little weary when we let him go out back with us.  He probably thinks we were punishing him for something.  Poor kitty.

Today Lucian was napping and the cat wanted to play.  I couldn't play with him because Lucian was sleeping in my lap.  So Newton decided to crawl up into my lap also (common occurrence). After some readjusting we were all comfortable.  At least for a little while.  The cat was a little restless and decided to start causing trouble.  I had to push him out of the space.  He decided to retaliate by laying on Lucian's chair and watching cartoons. So there I was stuck in a chair without the remote watching the cat watch cartoons.  Who knew?